Friday, March 8, 2013

giveaway link-up 6 and life lately

obsessed with nemo / precious moments that are all too rare lately / best buds / still an avid reader / soup on cold and dreary winter days / obsession no.2: nugget / saying our last goodbyes to a great grandfather who will be painfully missed / wearing comfy layers / giving in to "the white one"who can say no to those eyes? 

out to buy his very first potty / smile / no luck yet! / comfortable ankle boots / waiting in the car with a sleeping babe / mixing some patterns / shopping / "just because" flowers from my man / two in hats

after a nap / detecting pee in the bath, j/k / my favorite weenie ;) / peeking / favorite outfits / new to us chairs for the dining room / never ending snow and coffee / progress on the instagram wall front / sharing the bed with his girlfriend ;) 

Happy Friday everyone! Time to link up all of your fabulous giveaways :)
Thanks for linking up, have fun and make sure to enter a few as well. 

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Thursday, March 7, 2013

not going on a pilgrimage but still wearing that hat!!

Pants: Drykorn, Shirt: Old Navy Men's, Sweater: Gap, Jacket: Target, Boots: Sorel, Hat: Gap, Bag: Fossil  
As much as I've had enough of this snow, I can't seem to get enough of this lovely hat. I just wish that I could wear it to shade me from the sun instead of protect my hair from that darn snow.

Anyway, because everyone is doing it these days, and I've been tagged to do it on Instagram so many times, I thought I'd finally jump on the "5 things" bandwagon.

So here are 5 things you may not know about me:

  1. I hate small talk. I am probably the most awkward person when it comes to small talk. I don't know why but I am just not good at it at all. I love to talk, don't get me wrong ;) but the whole bla bla just isn't for me. I get all flustered and start looking around the room instead of at the person I am talking to. Horrible, I know...
  2. When I get nervous, stressed or extremely bored, I start picking at my fingernails. I don't bite them but I peel away at the layers until they get so thin they eventually break off. If I use nail polish I am much better at not picking at them but I barely ever wear nail polish to begin with. 
  3. I have a tiny little butterfly tattoo in a very inconspicuous place on my body. I got it when I was 18 and I don't feel any connection to it whatsoever. Jason actually got one of his nipples pierced at the same time which is probably the most ridiculous thing he's ever done in his entire life. If you knew him you'd totally understand. He has since removed that sucker and we do not miss it either ;) I don't hate my tattoo but I sure don't love it either. It's kinda just there. For years now I've been thinking about getting "so close no matter how far" tattooed because it speaks to me on so many levels and perfectly applies to my life. I love hearing the stories behind people's tattoos. So, I may do it one day or I may not...
  4. When I was a little girl I did ballet for about 5 years. I hear I was pretty good at it too. I still regret that I quit and I'd love to try the Barre work-out. Unfortunately I live about 45 minutes from the closest studio. 
  5. I am way more productive when my husband is out of town for work. When he's home all I want to do is hang out with him and watch movies, run errands together or take Logan somewhere. I'm kind of addicted to that guy :) 
And another random fact is that I am the worst at coming up with random facts about myself. It's probably because I don't really find myself particularly interesting. 

It's almost the weekend!! What are your plans? 

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Tuesday, March 5, 2013

$1000 Visa Gift Card St. Patrick's Day Giveaway


35 bloggers have joined forces to bring you this AMAZING giveaway...one lucky winner will be receiving a $1,000 Visa Gift card!  Yes, you read that right...$1,000 to spend on clothes, bills, a vacation, or whatever else your little heart desires!

I know I have a few ideas about what I would do with that money but since I can't win it myself I am curious to find out what you would do with it??

Make sure to visit all of these amazing blogs and get as many entries as you can. I think I'd pee my pants if I won that much money ;)

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!

Enter using the Rafflecopter widget above. The giveaway will run through March 17th. To be eligible, you must be 18 years of age or over and a U.S. resident. Prize is valued at $1000.

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Giveaway: Gage Huntley Designs $75 Peruvian Bangles

If you've been reading my blog for a while you will already know about the amazing jewelry 
from Gage Huntley Designs. Amanda creates one of a kind pieces of jewelry that truly speak to everyone's taste because there is such great variety. I also love having her on my Instagram feed and getting to see all the new pieces she puts out on a regular basis. Plus, it helps me stay in the loop for sales and special offers. 

Her one of a kind pieces sell super fast and I've unfortunately found myself missing out on a few of them because I waited too long :(

Check out the Gage Huntley Designs shop right here

Amanda is once again so kind to give one of you lucky readers out there a set of 5 of her best-selling Peruvian bangles. That is a $75 value, folks!!!
She is currently trying to get to 1000 Instagram followers and will be hosting an amazing giveaway once that milestone has been reached :) Let's help her reach that goal!

To enter to win this super cute set of bangles, all you need to do is the following:

Be a GFC (google friend connect) follower of The Forge.

Follow Gage Huntley Designs (@amandalovesgage) on Instagram. 
If you don't have Instagram please make sure to follow on Facebook instead. 


Giveaway is open to all US and Canada residents. Giveaway ends at 12 am EST March 8th. Winner will be announced on this post and contaced via email. Winner has 48 hours to claim prize before another winner will be picked. Prize will be provided by Gage Huntley Designs. 

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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

because you asked: how I shop



Leggings: Aerie, T-Shirt: Tresics, Cardigan: Urban Outfitters, Leather Jacket: Target, Necklace: Aerie, Moccasins: Minnetonka, Hat: Suzanna


First things first: yes, I know this hat makes me look like a martian with a huge head. I still like it anyway. Huge head = big brain. Right? Right! 

Moving on...

Like I announced in this post on Monday about purging my closet, today I want to share a little bit about how I shop. I've been getting this question more and more recently so i figured I'd just make it a post and share some of my tips and tricks for a successful shopping trip. 

I love to shop but since purging my closet and realizing what I truly like, I now make a conscious effort to ask myself a few basic questions every time I think about making a purchase.

Do I LOVE it?

This is a hard one because I love a lot of things. I am a very visual person, I love good design and I 
am very anal about my typography (I know, totally unrelated). I pay attention to details and I am 
a perfectionist.
So when I shop I try to go out looking for something specific because I did my "research" and I 
already know I am in love with it. This can quickly change though once I hold the item in my hands 
or try it on ;) 

Can I pair it with at least 3 things from my existing wardrobe?

This one is important because if I don't already have at least 3 pieces to wear it with I am looking at 
either buying an entire outfit now or having the new item hang in my closet without getting worn. 
No fun, right? 
You may not always be able to come up with all the options in your head while shopping, especially 
if you're like me and have an impatient toddler with you. That's when you make sure the store has 
a great return policy ;) 

Is it too trendy? 

If an item is too trendy, you may not get very much use out of it before you can't see it anymore or 
the trend has died. Trends are great and I definitely give into them as well but I try to buy those 
pieces for cheap whenever I can.

Can it be a wardrobe staple?

If you find a basic white t-shirt at JCrew for $5, buy it! A classic black blazer at Ralph Lauren for 
a steal? Go for it! Simple leather riding boots for under $100? Don't let them get away!
Quality wardrobe staples at good prices shouldn't be ignored. Of course limit yourself because no 
one needs 5 black blazers ;) 
Wardrobe staples that I will wear for years to come are the only pieces I ever consider 
spending a little bit more money on. 

Is the price right?

The most important question. I admit it, I am a cheap shopper. I love a good bargain and I am not afraid to hunt it down. Thrift stores, discount stores, sample sales, clearance racks, coupons, you name it!!
I rarely pay full price for any item but I also don't limit myself to thrift stores only.
When you plan a shopping trip, prepare yourself by printing online coupons and finding out about sales. Weekends and holidays are great times to find a good sale but usually busy. I like to go on Friday mornings when the sales have already started but I avoid the crowds and get the best selection. 

Do I have it (or something similar) already? 

I have an obsession with gray, gray t-shirts in particular, so whenever I pull out another gray something at a store I remind myself that I really don't need another one. Instead I look for the same item in a different color that may look even better. If I don't like it anymore then I just walk away.
Variety makes it much easier to put outfits together, so remember to branch out from what you're used to. 

Know your stores and know your fits.

There are certain stores that I know I will find something great before I even walk in. Of course we all have our favorite stores. What's more important is to know your sizes and what fits are flattering and which ones to stay away from. If you find a great pair of denim that fit like a glove and you can afford it, buy a second pair. 
When it comes to denim: try on, try on, try on!! If you know what brands cut them just right for you it will become a go-to store. 
Try new brands. I just recently tried a new denim brand and it turns out I like them even better than my previous go-to :)

Don't be afraid to fail or cheat. 

Yes, now we get all philosophical! Or not. But really, it's ok not to follow all of the rules, all of the time. Shopping should be fun and so should getting dressed every day. 
If you bought something and a week later you regret it, return it. if you can't return it, give it to a friend, sell it on ebay or donate it. Get over it quickly, learn from it and move on. 

and lastly...

Be adventurous. Be you!

In every sense of the word. Nothing is off limits when it come to fashion, right?
If you've never thrifted before, I highly recommend you start. Just don't raid my stomping grounds, k? ;)
That dingy looking discount store down the road may be the source of some hidden treasures just waiting to find a new home in your closet.

So, I hope this answered some of your questions!? Anything else, ask away. 

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Monday, February 25, 2013

a pop of coral and how I purged my closet



Leggings: BDG at UO, T-Shirt: CottonOn, Sweater: Gap Outlet, Blazer: Ralph Lauren, Shoes: BDG at UO, Gloves: Target, Hat: Pieces, Bag: Liebeskind Berlin
I want to take a minute to talk about my closet today. A totally serious investigation into the depths and the how's and why's of my closet. Because every once in a while the truth has to be revealed...

Over the past 6 months I have gotten rid of more clothing than ever before. The reason being that almost every time I went to pick out an outfit I got overwhelmed with the decision making process, to a point where I got frustrated and unhappy with a lot of my outfit choices.
So I trashed, donated, sold and reorganized that closet of mine, and even took the time to unearth some boxes from the attic. When you open a box of shoes that you didn't even remember you had and suddenly it feels like you're shopping your own closet, you know it's time to let some things go...

I was going through a phase that changed my outlook on fashion completely. 
I wasn't happy with how certain things fit but I didn't want to get rid of them because of something or someone I had seen wearing something similar and well, it sure looked great on them.
So I kept holding on in the hopes of one day figuring out the trick to making this work or adding a piece to my wardrobe that would magically pull the look together.
I was fooling myself. 

I realized that what I want most when it comes to dressing myself is to be comfortable yet stylish in a subtle way that allows me to chase after a toddler and not constantly worry about breaking an ankle or flashing too much skin. 

I discovered that certain materials and cuts don't suit me in my day-to-day life. I like oversized clothing but have to be careful not to drown myself in them and loose all shape. It has been a fun and frustrating learning process and I am more careful now about what I choose to buy in the store.
I definitely have a much easier time putting together outfits with what I have kept and the new pieces I have added to my closet over the past few months. Taking outfit pictures also helps me evaluate each outfit I wear and make possible changes or totally scrap a combo. 

The outfits I post here are not always my favorites but I don't think it'd be very honest of me to only post the ones I am in love with. I am a mom, I am busy and I don't always have time to pick out an amazing outfit. What I want to share is the evolution of my style and the constant learning process that goes along with that.

I'll be sharing more about how and where I shop (because it's still my favorite), what I look for and how I decide what to buy in a post on Wednesday. 

Have you ever purged your closet? Did it make you feel better or did you regret it? 

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Friday, February 22, 2013

do the pattern mix & giveaway link-up 5

Pants: Gap Outlet, T-Shirt: UO, Plaid Shirt: Old Navy Men's, Leather Jacket: Mango, Boots: Hunter  












































We've had a pretty mixed week this week. It's been freezing and we didn't get to leave the house much. Instead we had a fire going almost every day, drank lots of tea and coffee while catching up on some shows like House of Cards and Sherlock. I highly recommend both!!
Jason has been taking a lot of road trips for work over the last couple of months and even though it helps me prepare for when he's gone even more, during baseball season, it also makes things so much more difficult.

When he's home we work together like a well oiled machine. We split up chores, making meals and taking care of Logan. We don't make charts or plans or anything, it just happens. It's simply the best feeling in the world to have my little family home, watch them play and learn from each other.
Sharing so many of the milestones and simply breathtaking moments that parenthood has brought us is like pure gold.

However, when he's gone, I pressure myself so much more, trying to do the work of two. I catch myself loosing my cool with Logan a lot more, especially now that he seems to be testing his limits (and mine) every 5 minutes. I seriously bow my head to all you single mamas out there!!

On top of everything else, Jason's grandfather's health has taken a drastic turn for the worse over the past week and he may not make it through the weekend.
So for now I am trying to set all of my lists and to-do's aside and take the weekend to be with and support my family.

Wishing you all a much happier weekend to enjoy :)



Giveaway Link-Up 5

- Please only link up giveaways, you may link up giveaways that are not yours because you think they are just so rad and need to be shared!
- Link up as many as you'd like from the current week.
- Come back next Friday to link up again.
- Please, please, please link back to me from your giveaway post or sidebar, or share in some other way.
Enter a few giveaways :)
Thank you!  







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